reciprocity

Finding harmony through giving back

Third layer of our Earth Medicine Integration Programme

“Action on behalf of life transforms. Because the relationship between self and the world is reciprocal, it is not a question of first getting enlightened or saved and then acting. As we work to heal the earth, the earth heals us.”

“The land knows you, even when you are lost.”

— Robin Wall Kimmerer

from me to we

Reciprocity holds profound significance, especially when we look at the path of healing and integration. It is a principle deeply embedded in the teachings of many indigenous cultures, as well as in the ecological relationships they cultivate with the natural world. Drawing inspiration from the insights of Robin Wall Kimmerer, a renowned botanist and member of the Citizen Potawatomi Nation, we can explore the transformative power of reciprocity and its implications for healing.

In indigenous wisdom, reciprocity is a way of being that recognises the interconnectedness and interdependence of all life forms. It is the understanding that we are not separate from the natural world but rather intricately woven into its tapestry.

Reciprocity involves an exchange—a continual give-and-take that nourishes both individuals and communities, as well as the larger ecosystem.

Within the realm of healing, reciprocity challenges the dominant paradigm that views humans as separate from nature, as conquerors and exploiters. Instead, it invites us to remember our place within the web of life and to approach healing as a collaborative process. It asks us to listen to the wisdom of the natural world, to respect its inherent intelligence and to seek reciprocal relationships with all beings.

Reciprocity in healing involves acknowledging that we receive healing not only from healthcare providers or therapeutic modalities but also from the land, plants, animals and ancestral wisdom. It is recognising that the act of healing is not simply a one-way transaction but a dynamic exchange. As we receive healing, we are called to reciprocate by caring for the well-being of the natural world, by cultivating a sense of responsibility and gratitude.

Reciprocity is embodied through practices such as ceremony, ritual and the offering of gratitude, along with the small daily acts of giving from a seat of compassion. It is expressed through acts of stewardship, environmental conservation, community cultivation and sustainable ways of living. Reciprocity is about establishing a relationship of respect and gratitude with the Earth (and our Earth family) and understanding that we are recipients of Earth’s gifts and therefore bear the responsibility to protect and restore the balance of reciprocity.

Embracing reciprocity within the context of integrative healing allows us to move away from an extractive mindset and towards a regenerative one. By honoring reciprocity, we can create a world where healing is not merely focused on individual bodies but extends to the healing of communities, ecosystems and the collective well-being of all.

As Robin Wall Kimmerer beautifully articulates, reciprocity calls us to ask, "What does the Earth ask of us in return for all that she gives? How can we reciprocate her gifts and ensure the flourishing of life for future generations?" These questions guide us towards a transformative relationship with the Earth, where healing becomes a reciprocal act of love and stewardship, fostering a more harmonious and balanced existence for all.

Cultivating a sense of guardianship heals us. Communing with life in a way that feels symbiotic and true to the essence of our complex interbeing heals us. Engaging with practices of regenerative inspiration brings us together and connects us with a rooted sense of passion and purpose.

“To be native to a place we must learn to speak its language.”

Robin Wall Kimmerer

“If the world is to be healed through human efforts, I am convinced it will be by ordinary people, people whose love for this life is even greater than their fear.”

“In the face of impermanence and death, it takes courage to love the things of this world and to believe that praising them is our noblest calling.”

—Joanna Macy

“By inviting in these experiences of interconnectedness we can enhance our sense of belonging to our world. This mode of being widens and deepens our sense of who we are.”


― Joanna Macy

practices

connect with your tree

With every sign up, we sponsor biodiversity in Britain, including ancient growth woodland and wildflower meadows. We used to plant a tree with each sign up but found the biodiversity to be more rooted… so feel free to work with this meditation - one focussed on your tree and the reciprocity of breath, in whichever way you feel fits.

Reciprocal Being Meditation with Roni (12 min)

A final note, for now…

Integration won’t just happen.

You must weave yourself into a reverent relationship with your life and keep falling in love with it, again and again.

Seek awe! Go out into the woods, run in the rain, find a field away from city lights and watch the night sky. Go alone or bring others with you and make an agreement to allow space and silence for presence. You don’t need to photograph the moment, you don’t need to be anywhere else. Find ways to embrace life and see how life will embrace you. Revisit the words, music, art, experiences that enrich your being. Learn to know your medicine. Find the pathways to inner peace and knowing.

Sing a song to the swallows and the other migratory beings who demonstrate year by year that home is where you make it. Eat something new, something utterly delicious, and let yourself be dazzled by Earth’s bounty. And if you’re struggling to do any of this, remember that you have allies. The plant and fungi kingdom have been a part of our human story since time before time. Be responsible, and most importantly, hold reverence. These allies are wise and they can knock you sideways if you don’t create the right intentions, set and setting. Hold a truly reverent relationship with these teachers.

We are here for you along this path. Reach out to us or member of the group. Don’t isolate yourself, seek connection, cultivate it with the same artistry that a sculptor creates a masterpiece.

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